Tuesday, September 20, 2011
I noticed lately a lot of people love to post their emotion through Facebook. Yeah maybe it is a good thing to share with friends but most of their post actually might/will annoy others without they notice about it. At Facebook I have quite a number of friends (yeah i add a lot of role-player) so my news feed are more than 300 but i don't really get annoy with it. The only thing that annoy me a lot are pessimist who tend to post their unhappy emotion through Facebook (it is more annoying than lovey dovey post). Some of them are Muslim but their post didn't show an Islamic attitude like feeling like wanted to kill themselves (commit suicide).
Life is not always beautiful and a lot of unhappy event will pops up from time to time. However, we must learn to overcome it and live as long as we can while preparing for Hereafter. By posting all pessimistic thought you are actually revealing your own weakness to the public hence make you looked like a loser (sorry to say). We are human, a creature that bound with feeling but we are also a creature that possess aqal which differentiate us from animal. Even an animal try to survive based on their instinct so why we human being a foolish whom wanted to end our life just due to the stress or feeling lonely? Just think what your parent will feel when they reading your "wanted to end my life" statement.
Do you know that stress, mistakes and mishap make us grow stronger emotionally? Yeah it is true if we get through it with open minded and took it as another test from our Creator. It might be painful but when we're being optimistic, it shouldn't be a problem anymore.
To Muslim, when we feeling stress or discourage, we are advised to take an ablution and perform solah. InsyaAllah we will feel better after that because we quetch to Allah.
Crying could be another therapy whenever we feel down or stress. We doesn't looked good whenever we cried but after crying, usually we will feel relief and motivated to continue our life.
Talk to somebody also can be another way of relieving stress. That's the reason why we have counselor on Earth people! If still not work it just go hang out and watch funny movie so you will forget about your sadness temporarily.
Fuhh this is the longest entry I've posted during in this period of proposal should be the numero uno thinggy huhu...ok guys, I hopes this post can lift a lil bit of your stress and open your eyes on what actually our life is.