Selfish. It is the most hateful personality that I hope I don't posses. I used to hates ARROGANCE but now SELFISH is on the top of my list. I don't know how and why people become more selfish as they grow up. In kindergarten, the teachers taught us to share our toys and sometimes foods with our friends. We don't even bother to share and had a good time together with friends. But now...speechless even with a family we tend to be calculative, stingy and even fight because of money and other possessions..don't we feel ashamed with ourselves? Think.
Selfless. Well it is the most preferable personality but still it is not good to the individual itself. Selfless means put others before yourselves. Without a doubt our beloved prophet Muhammad S.A.W. possesses this remarkable personality which made me and other Muslims love him. Selfless also means the willingness to sacrifices yourself for others benefit or to helps peoples in need. Why did I said it is good for others but not to the individual? Because at the end of the day, the person itself might suffer lost from the actions they made for others. Other might use him as scapegoat and we all know how bad it is. However, if the person is sincere to sacrifice himself for a good reason, he'll benefit from it in hereafter..insyaAllah.